To Change or Not to Change

By Clint Cook

I recently had a very important exchange with a young pastor who has just taken a position at an established, traditional church.  Since arriving, he has discovered that the church is severely outdated in a number of ways which limit its impact on the community.  This young pastors can face many obstacles when initiating changepastor desires for his church to be an important influence within their community and wants to lead the church into the 21st century.  He proceeded to ask me what is perhaps the most common question a young leader asks when beginning a pastorate at an older, established church: “Is there ever a point in a pastorate when all the needed change is simply too risky?  Is there a point when you say it’s just not worth it?”

My response was that he should ask and answer the following questions regarding his church:

1.  How long do you anticipate staying in this church?

If a pastor doesn’t think he will stay very long in a church, this its not worth encountering resistance and (most likely) causing friction due to change and new ideas if he isn’t going to see it through.  If your personal preference is to stay in a church only 2-3 years, then leave the church’s methodology alone.

2.  What is your opinion of the church leaders?

You will need a lot of influencers to be able to pull off major change.  When a pastor first comes to a church, he is only the nominal leader.  This existing church leaders are the ones still in charge.  If you want to initiate change and survive the process, you have to carefully assess the mindset of your church leaders.
3.  How much change do you believe the church can withstand?

Maybe the best way to analyze this is to break down the age groups of your congregation.  If you congregation is predominately a 70+ congregation, then they are less likely to handle change as easily as a 40 and under age group.  Know your age groups and their percentages before implementing change.
4.  Is the facility designed in a way wherein you could offer an alternative contemporary service at a different time and leave the main worship hour in its current traditional style?

Change can be made easier if you first add something new, but leave the existing service alone to maintain stability and continuity for traditional worshipers.
5.  What has God put in your heart to do?  Are you diligently searching His will?

There’s no other biblical book that can help a young leader approach change in a church than the Old Testament book of Nehemiah.  Read it and learn.

When all of these questions are answered, a young leader is in a much better position to truly evaluate whether or not it is worth leader a church through major change.

Do you think this list is missing some elements to consider before implementing change?  Do you know of other ways to help make a transition smooth when undergoing important shifts?  Click on ‘Leave A Comment’ at the top of this article to share your experiences and opinions.

To Stay or Not to Stay-That is the Question

By Clint Cookit is sometimes hard for a pastor to stay at their current church

I recently spoke with a minister from one of our rural churches.  He determined, after much prayer and debate within the church, to call for a vote on whether or not he should remain as pastor.  The final tally was split 50/50, and he decided to resign.

My heart ached for him as he shared with me his heavy heart and the struggle he was going through- not wanting to leave, but believing there was no other choice, given that he had not received enough support to stay.  If you are struggling with this decision, I encourage you to also read this recent Messenger article that walks through some important factors to consider.

Over my 29 years in ministry, I have watched pastors face this dilemma time and time again.  I give the same piece of advice to every pastor I talk to about this gut-wrenching decision: Stay, if possible.  I believe my advice echoes that of the Apostle Paul to Titus, “This is why I left you in Crete…” (Titus 1:5)  Paul encouraged Titus to “stay put” and continue the ministry where he was called.

My advice comes from a pastor who has ministered to the same church for 29 years.  Staying in one church for the long haul has many benefits for the church as well as the pastor.

1.  The first benefit is spiritual growth within the church membership.  A church and pastor may not agree on everything that the pastor leads a church to do.  There will be differences of opinion.  However, staying put leads to congregations and pastors who learn to work through their differences without someone necessarily leaving.  Some pastors will need to leave in the midst of a conflict; likewise, some church members need to leave as well.  But churches can become more like Christ, exhibiting forgiveness, grace, and perseverance, when they learn to work through their differences.

2.  Long-term pastors also have more time to build relationships in the community and lead the congregation to do the same, which can impact many more lives for Christ.  This is an important reason for a pastor to stay.  Long pastoral tenures enable a pastor to lead the church in being a lighthouse and spiritual resource in the community, impacting multiple generations.  In other words, a stable church points to an unchanging God upon which families should build their foundations.

3.  When a pastor stays in a church for a long time, he must continually go deeper into the study of the Bible in order to lead his congregation in spiritual maturity.  Preaching for 29 years in one church, with three Sunday morning services and countless small group Bible studies over the years, I cannot afford to get lazy or stuck in a rut.  It is my responsibility to spiritually feed my congregation, so I am always looking deeper into God’s Word for His message.  Not only do I have to intentionally set aside time to study the Word, but I must learn different methods and styles of delivering that message to stay relevant with our culture.  As I look to the future for the Real Life congregation, if God would permit it, this could be a ministry of 45 years or more.  I believe this is only possible, however, if I give even more time to His Word.

While it is not always possible, or healthy, for a pastor to stay at his current church, the benefits of a long-term pastorate affect the pastor, the congregation, and the community, and should always be considered when faced with tough situations.

 

The Value of Pastoral Relationships

By Clint Cook

Over the last few weeks, I have reflected on the value of attending conferences.  As I’ve stated before, this idea is not a new one in the church.  We find examples in the Word of God where Jesus himself would withdraw from the pressures of ministry and take those he ministered with away for intense discipleship training.

Last week, General Baptist ministers gathered at the 2014 Minister’s Conference on Kentucky Lake.  Executive Director Clint Cook shares on why pastoral relationships are importantI was allowed the opportunity to speak on the last evening.  As I prepared for this final session, where both new and experienced ministers were in attendance, I was led to speak on a puzzling passage of scripture in the Old Testament, found in 1 Kings 13.  In this passage, God commissioned a young prophet from the southern nation of Israel to go to the northern tribes and pronounce a sobering prophecy to King Jereboam.  God told him he was to speak the message and then go directly home, without eating or drinking anything.  The young prophet obeyed God’s directions and did exactly as he was instructed-until he was on his way home.  Meanwhile, an older prophet heard of the young prophet’s mission and met up with him as he journeyed home.  When these strangers met, for some reason unknown to us through the scriptures, the older prophet decided to lie to the young man.  He told him that an angel had instructed him to bring the young prophet to his home and share a meal.  The young prophet trusted the old prophet and agreed.  While the men were eating, God spoke to the older prophet and told him to declare that the young prophet would lose his life because he had failed to fully obey God.  As the young prophet proceeded home, a lion attacked him and he was killed.  The older prophet mourned the death of the young man and was so affected that he requested that upon his death, his sons bury him with this younger prophet.

I agree.  This IS a very bizarre passage.  Don’t you wonder why the young man would so quickly turn aside from doing exactly what God had told him?  And why the old prophet would lie and deceive the young man?

I believe this story is here for us to learn two very important lessons.  First, we must ignore distractions and follow through with doing exactly what the Lords tells us.  Second, we must not blindly trust the advice of others, even ministers, just because they are older.

Ministers building relationships at the 2014 MinConAfter such a sobering story, how can young prophets/ministers keep from being deceived by older ministers or saints in the faith?  The simple answer is that they must get to know them.  In the above story, neither of these men knew one another.  If they had known one another, known each other’s hearts, known each other’s motivations and goals, there may have been a different ending.

This is yet another reason why conferences, like the General Baptist Minister’s Conference, are so valuable.  Older, more mature Christians must get to know younger ones.  Young preachers need to hear mature ministers share their hearts, struggles, and goals, all of which remove the stranger barrier and help prevent deception from happening.  When you listen, interact, and share with others, you are more equipped to discern whether another believer is truly looking out for your best interest and offering sound advice.

You might say that if the young prophet had remained focused and done only what he was directed to do, this may not have happened.  Or, if they old prophet had not lied this may not have happened.  Both of those are true, but I also believe that if both of these men had known each other, their story would have turned out differently.  I am so thankful for the fellow ministers and believers who want to sharpen their discernment by building relationships with one another.

General Baptist Ministries offers several conferences throughout the year.  The upcoming Mission and Ministry Summit will take place July 21-23 in Springfield, Illinois and you do NOT want to miss it!  To register, head over to generalbaptist.com or call 573-785-7746.