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March 25, 2014

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Didn’t See That Coming

By Carl Nichols

I like to read, and I often come across quotes that absolutely impact my paradigm. A few years ago, in preparation for a teaching I came across this quote:

“time in erodes awareness of”

Building margin into my schedule has been a process for me as well as something that I have to constantly keep a pulse on. This simple quote has helped me in so many ways, and it minimizes the times that I have to say “I didn’t see that coming.” Here are just a few takeaways…

  • The longer I am in certain routines, the less aware I am of bad habits that I have developed. I am surprised at how quickly I can drift off course.
  • I must listen to people I trust and allow them to speak honestly into my life. This includes my staff, family, and mentors.
  • I have to create a score card. In business we call it “clarifying the win.” In my family, it centers around our family covenant that includes our values. At the end of the day, I must have a score card that helps me determine whether I am winning or losing in areas of my life. This helps me focus and builds margin.
  • I must learn to say “no” more often. This is so tough because culture says that we can “squeeze it in” to our already busy lives. Thinking counter culturally will require you to say no more often than you say yes. Be prepared to hurt a few people’s feelings along the way, but in the long run you will be healthier in every area of your life.
  • I must remember the basics. What got me where I am today will not necessarily take me where I want to be tomorrow, but many of the principles are timeless. For me personally this involves things like scheduled nights with my family and quiet time with God. As it relates to leadership, a couple of timeless principles include minimizing my direct people reports, limiting access to my personal time, and keeping a rigid schedule.

Question: What are some common things people don’t see coming because their time in has eroded their awareness of?

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March 21, 2014

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What Can You Expect Out of Life?

By Carl Nichols

Every month I gather with about 40 high capacity leaders for training and leadership development. As we began discussing one of our core values, “intentional everything”, I made the following statement…

“You can’t expect what you don’t inspect.”

We are currently in the process of dissecting every area of our church with this in mind, and I believe it will have great value for us as an organization. However, I believe this is true in all areas of our life. Here are just a few:

  • You can’t expect to have a good marriage if you don’t inspect how much face time you are giving to your spouse
  • You can’t expect your kid’s grades to improve if you aren’t inspecting their priorities
  • You can’t expect to have money left at the end of the month if you aren’t inspecting your spending habits
  • You can’t expect to retire early or wealthy if you aren’t inspecting your savings habits
  • You can’t expect to get a raise on the job if you aren’t inspecting the quality of work you are putting out
  • You can’t expect your spouse to understand how you feel unless you inspect your communication habits
  • You can’t expect your business to thrive if you don’t inspect the value it brings to the market you are in
  • You can’t expect your employees or staff to live up to your expectations if you aren’t inspecting their habits and giving them constructive feedback
  • You can’t expect your team’s morale to remain high if you don’t inspect the attitudes of those involved
  • You can’t expect to win in life if you never inspect your losses

I have tried to apply these principles to my life and family. I have found that it is very easy to drift off course, but inspection allows us to correct the problems before they get out of hand.

So what can you expect out of life? You can expect what you inspect!

What areas of your life do you need to inspect more often?