More Like Maddie

By Robbie Myers

At the end of June, we suffered a heartbreaking loss in our home.  Maddie, my wife’s service dog, passed away unexpectedly.  Maddie had been part of our household for over 9 years-her entire life.  Our family has faced many challenges in the past decade, and during those times, I always felt better and more peaceful when she sat in my lap.  Hopefully, she felt that same peacefulness when she took her last breath while sitting in my lap.

During this sad time, we have been intentional about being grateful to God for the time we were blessed to have her in our lives.  We are comforted by the many great memories we have of Maddie.

Maddie’s eyes would stare deeply in mine.  Her look conveyed her loyalty, her love, her admiration.  Whenever we arrived home, she would always meet us at the door with a present.  Usually, it was her most prized possession.  For the past year and a half, that item was a stuffed octopus toy.  This was a Christmas present given to her as we prepared to move to our mission field of Saipan.  Sometimes, she was too anxious to go find the toy so she would grab anything she could find-like a sock.  She would run right up to us, vigorously wagging her tail until we accepted her gift, then wait for us to pet or embrace her.

Maddie’s favorite activity was to go for a ride with her family.  We had to take great care to spell (and not say) the words “ride” and “go” or we would have a hyperactive dog to calm down.  Once in the car she would bark with excitement, and would even push the button to roll down the window so she could stick her head out.

Here in Saipan, I would take her for a walk in beach side parks after a ride.  Invariably, we would be approached by families.  When they walked up to us, they would almost always say the same words-“Your dog is pretty.  What is it’s name?”  We learn a lot from our dogs.This allowed me to engage in a conversation about my family and how we were serving as missionaries.  I was able to have some great conversations about our mission and Saipan Community Church with these families that hailed from all over the world, including Korea, China, the Philippines, Japan, and Russia.  Maddie enjoyed the attention and being petted by all the children.  Her presence helped us with our mission by creating opportunities for us to have conversations with people that would not have occurred otherwise.

As I reflect on the experiences I shared with Maddie, I keep coming back to the same thought-I want to be more like Maddie.

What do I mean, “more like Maddie”?  I mean I want to fix my gaze upon Jesus and worshipfully convey my love and dedication to my Master.  I want to show my joy for being in His presence by providing Him my best.  I want to demonstrate an unbridled enthusiasm for the journeys He has prepared for me.  I want Christ to use me to introduce Him to people from all over the globe.  I want to enjoy the same curiosity and appreciation she had for God’s creations.

In her life, Maddie provided joy to my soul.  Through her passing, she challenged me to find an even deeper joy in my spirit and a stronger relationship with my Savior.

4 Ways to Change the 80/20 Rule

By Franklin Dumond

Several versions of this important obituary have appeared. This one provides a fitting eulogy of this well-known member.

“Our church was saddened to learn recently of the death of one of our most valued members. After only a short illness Someone Else passed away.

Someone’s passing creates a vacancy that will be difficult to fill. Else has been with us for many years and for all those years Someone did far more than a normal person’s share of the work. Whenever there was a job to do, a class to teach, or a meeting to attend everyone agreed that Someone Else should do it. Whenever leadership was mentioned, this wonderful person was looked to for inspiration as well as results. We often heard, “Someone Else can work with that group.”

It was common knowledge that Someone Else was among the most generous givers in our church. Whenever there was a financial need, everyone just assumed Someone Else would make up the difference.

Someone Else was a wonderful person, sometimes appearing superhuman. Obviously everyone expected too much of Someone and now Someone Else is gone! Someone left a wonderful example to follow, but who is going to follow it? Who will do what Someone Else did?

When you are asked to help this year, remember we can’t depend on Someone Else anymore.”

The important role of Someone Else is often undertaken by a small minority of those folks who attend a local church.  A popular rule of thumb is that 80% of the work is done by 20% of the members. One significant growth barrier in a smaller church is that a workforce of 20% is just too small to sustain current ministry, let alone add new ministry endeavors. For example, in a church of 50 the 20% workforce is only 10 people!

Here are four pretty simple, but effective, ways to change the 80/20 rule.cultivating volunteers must be intentional

1. Identify who is doing ministry. Pay particular attention to those who are double-dipping by undertaking more than one major ministry task and look carefully to find those often unnoticed servants who are busy behind the scenes.

2. Identify what ministry is being done. Pay particular attention to those ministry tasks that sustain the current program of the church and to those that engage the community. Look at the nominating committee report to see what assignments are being given. Check the church calendar to see what is happening.

3. Broaden your concept of who can do ministry. Once you have identified who is doing ministry start looking at who is not doing ministry. Many folks are very willing to help but they will not volunteer for a ministry assignment. Find a way to invite them to help on a short term basis. Use the strategy of “I do ministry—You watch me” then “You do ministry—I watch you” and finally “You do ministry and I cheer you on.”

4. Broaden your concept of what ministry is and how it can be done. Divide larger tasks into smaller units so more people can be involved. For example, fellowship events can involve a few volunteers showing up early and staying late or there could be a setup crew/person, a serving crew/person and a clean-up crew/person. One greeter could always be in place or several greeters could take turns one Sunday at a time.

Does every ministry have a prayer component? Organize folks who will pray for each class, for each servant, for each church program.  Jesus noticed in his day that the harvest was ready but the workers were few. Things haven’t changed all that much, have they?

Have you noticed other effective ways to change the 80/20 rule?  Click on ‘Leave A Comment’ at the top of this article to share your views and experiences with us!

To Change or Not to Change

By Clint Cook

I recently had a very important exchange with a young pastor who has just taken a position at an established, traditional church.  Since arriving, he has discovered that the church is severely outdated in a number of ways which limit its impact on the community.  This young pastors can face many obstacles when initiating changepastor desires for his church to be an important influence within their community and wants to lead the church into the 21st century.  He proceeded to ask me what is perhaps the most common question a young leader asks when beginning a pastorate at an older, established church: “Is there ever a point in a pastorate when all the needed change is simply too risky?  Is there a point when you say it’s just not worth it?”

My response was that he should ask and answer the following questions regarding his church:

1.  How long do you anticipate staying in this church?

If a pastor doesn’t think he will stay very long in a church, this its not worth encountering resistance and (most likely) causing friction due to change and new ideas if he isn’t going to see it through.  If your personal preference is to stay in a church only 2-3 years, then leave the church’s methodology alone.

2.  What is your opinion of the church leaders?

You will need a lot of influencers to be able to pull off major change.  When a pastor first comes to a church, he is only the nominal leader.  This existing church leaders are the ones still in charge.  If you want to initiate change and survive the process, you have to carefully assess the mindset of your church leaders.
3.  How much change do you believe the church can withstand?

Maybe the best way to analyze this is to break down the age groups of your congregation.  If you congregation is predominately a 70+ congregation, then they are less likely to handle change as easily as a 40 and under age group.  Know your age groups and their percentages before implementing change.
4.  Is the facility designed in a way wherein you could offer an alternative contemporary service at a different time and leave the main worship hour in its current traditional style?

Change can be made easier if you first add something new, but leave the existing service alone to maintain stability and continuity for traditional worshipers.
5.  What has God put in your heart to do?  Are you diligently searching His will?

There’s no other biblical book that can help a young leader approach change in a church than the Old Testament book of Nehemiah.  Read it and learn.

When all of these questions are answered, a young leader is in a much better position to truly evaluate whether or not it is worth leader a church through major change.

Do you think this list is missing some elements to consider before implementing change?  Do you know of other ways to help make a transition smooth when undergoing important shifts?  Click on ‘Leave A Comment’ at the top of this article to share your experiences and opinions.