Summer Time

By Carl Nichols

Cookouts, sunshine, swimming pools, and vacations are all a part of summer.  No doubt people from your church will travel, and attendance will likely look like a roller coaster ride from June through August.  With that in mind, our staff at Relevant work very hard to set and manage expectations while seeing fruitful results during the summer.  Here are 5 things we have learned:

  1. Don’t assume that you can’t grow during the summer.  Although most churches do see numerical dips, don’t give up during the summer.  Even if you don’t grow, understand that this can still be used as a season of equipping and preparing for a healthy fall season.
  2. Look for relational opportunities for your people to connect.  Memorial Day, July 4th, and Back to School Blowouts are always relational and build excitement.
  3. Don’t do something just to do it.  If it doesn’t fit your mission, vision, and values, say an emphatic NO.  During the summer, all staff should take some down time.Always clarify the win for any event or activity you play so you have a clear scorecard of your success.  For more on mission, vision, and values, make sure and attend the first session of our “Healthy Church” track (The Foundation) at Summit.
  4. Make sure you, your pastor, and your staff all take some down time.  Everyone expects you to take a break in the summer.  They do!  You should, too!  I take 3-4 weekends off from speaking during the months of June and July.  This allows our people to hear from other great communicators, many of whom are a part of our own movement or staff.  Additionally, I make sure each of our staff has a couple of weekends to themselves as well.
  5. Do something fun for your kid’s ministry that makes them want to attend as much as they can, and even be excited enough to bring a friend.  This year at Relevant, we are doing “Red Hot Summer” that is focused on something red or hot every week of June and July.  Popsicles, sunglasses, and beach balls are just a few examples.

summer-49019_1280At Relevant, we kick off summer on Memorial Day weekend with a family fun day with water games, activities, food from the grill, and a very intense young versus old softball game.  Additionally, we kick off “fit groups” for relational building while people work to get that beach body they have always wanted.  Our win here is relationships that cannot be built on Sunday morning and that sometimes fall by the wayside because many of our small groups don’t meet during the months of June and July.

What’s your biggest summer struggle?  Click on ‘Leave a Comment’ at the top and join the discussion!

 

Be Encouraged

Every once in a while as a pastor I see people doing their best to fight the good fight and honor God, yet the enemy just keeps attacking.  Maybe recent weeks have been very trying for you.  Maybe you are facing obstacles that seem insurmountable.  Maybe you feel like giving up.  I just wanted to take a couple of sentences and encourage you with a few thoughts.

Psalm 23:4 states, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.” (NIV)

Although I cannot explain all that may be happening in your situation, I can tell you that God’s promises are true, and that He is with you guiding your steps.  I want to encourage you to stay focused and not give up.  God’s plans for your life are bigger than you could ever imagine, and you will never have victory without a battle.  The truth is, the tougher the battle, the sweeter the victory.

I challenge you to expect greater things from God.  Never give up on His promises.  But also remember as you do, the enemy will relentlessly pursue distracting you from God’s plan for your life and your church.  Don’t give up!  Don’t give in!  Fight the good fight!

-Carl

Big Rocks: 10 Ways to Keep Priorities in Order

By Carl Nichols

Leading a church that meets in a portable facility, is in the middle of an initiative to build a permanent home, is dreaming of and planning for our first satellite campus, and being highly involved in a national church planting movement means I am often asked,  “How do you keep priorities in order?”  Recently at Relevant, we took a hard look at the way we live our lives and attempted to push people to get out of the hamster wheel of life. The challenge was to take a step back, put everything on the table, and allow God to manage your schedule. This is something my wife Julie and I have worked hard at over the last few years, and I thought I would share a few principles with you.  Watch the illustration below and then read the 10 principles to help you keep your rocks in the right order.

Ten “Big Rock” Principles

  1. God is first priority. This has to be true in every part of our lives. Our time. Our relationships. Our family. Our finances. If he’s not first in all of them, he isn’t first in any of them. The Gospel is not a pick and choose gospel.
  2. Priority determines capacity.  If I know what my big rocks are, then I can prioritize them accordingly. There has to be a time when we empty the jar and start all over.
  3. Values determine priority. One of my mentors once said, “When you have clearly defined your mission and values, 80 percent of all decisions are already made.” We have a family covenant that includes our mission and values that we weigh everything against. This takes time and effort to develop.
  4. The important must trump the urgent.  It can be difficult not to live in the moment and do the easy thing when things get a little hectic. Having clear values helps keep first things first.
  5. Never underestimate the power of any decision. Sometimes small, insignificant decisions really have a much larger impact than first realized. Before making any decision ask, “How much is this going to cost me over time?”
  6. Every family member has a voice. I care what my wife and children enjoy and value, and those things have become a part of our family covenant
  7. Nothing is off limits. Nothing. Nada. Nil. Zero. Naught.
  8. We think counter-culturally. Generally, when culture tells us one thing, the Scriptures teach us another. We evaluate everything based on our biblical worldview. Some examples of these things include our decisions to homeschool, give 30 percent of our income away, and pay cash for everything.
  9. I only have one life to live. That’s it. When it is over, it is over and I can’t get a mulligan. It passes much faster than I am happy with!
  10. I will answer to God for it ALL. We’ve come full circle. This is the premise for the previous nine!

Ephesians 5:15-17 – “Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is.”