Why Conferences?

By Clint Cook

A couple of weeks ago I shared with you that conferences, especially the Minister’s Conference, have been a big part of my success in conferences help me continue my educationministry.  Conferences have always been of utmost importance to me, not only because they help develop long-terms relationships with fellow pastors (as I mentioned previously) but also for the opportunity to continue my education.

I have discovered that conferences are a great way to sharpen my skills, especially in a worship setting where the Word of God is being preached.  I love being challenged by biblical truths that provide incredible motivation.  Early on, when I was a younger pastor, there was much for me to learn, much for me to digest.  New principles and techniques I learned through conferences really paid off in my pastoral leadership development.  As I have gotten older, I recognize that I now attend conferences to find a special nugget.  I may attend the whole conference before I discover that one nugget that is exactly what I or my church need.

I have been very fortunate to pastor a church that was convinced they must invest in my continuing education.  Because of this continuing education, discouragement has not crippled me and I have not drifted toward dissatisfaction in ministry.

The bottom line: conferences give me an edge that has always been very valuable for me personally, as well as for my church.

To learn more about the Minister’s Conference, or any of our other four conferences we host throughout the year, go to generalbaptist.com or call 573-785-7746.

Be That Man

By Jeff Roth

I had the skills to pay the bills.  I was playing college baseball.  I was on my way to the big leagues.  That was my plan-but my coach had a different one.  I thought I should be starting at shortstop and batting clean up.  He thought I should be warming up our left fielder between innings.  We agreed to disagree, and I tried to become the best warmer-upper of a left fielder that they had ever seen.

Whenever you join a team you agree to come under the leadership of that team.  When I joined the baseball team, I understood that I was going to do whatever the coach thought would be best for the team.  It wasn’t always what I wanted.  Let’s be honest, it was hardly ever what I wanted, but I was following the leader.

In Mark chapter 8, Jesus calls not only His disciples, but also the crowd to Him.  He tells them all exactly what they must do if they want to be part of His team.

“If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Mark 8:34 ESV)

That’s what Jesus says.  When it comes to being a follower of Jesus it starts with a straight up denial of self.  Being a follower of Jesus I deny myself by saying that my life is no longer about me.  It’s surrendering everything to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my dreams to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my bank account to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my desire for applause, my talents, my time, my family, my heart.  It’s all surrendered to Jesus Christ to be used how He thinks will best help His cause.  It’s not always what I want, but it is what’s best.  That surrender and self denial is a daily battle for me.  It’s a daily battle for most of us, but it’s a battle we must fight.

Henry Varley once said to D.L. Moody, “It remains to be seen what God will do with a man who gives himself up wholly to Him.”  Moody became determined to be that man, and by God’s grace millions of lives were changed through his ministry.  I need to be determined to be that man.  You should be determined to be that person.  We should raise up our children and students to be determined to be that person.

NYC 2014 is all about surrenderingAt National Youth Conference this year we are going to war against this false truth that life is “all about me.”  We are going to raise up students who are willing to look to Jesus and raise their white flag of selfishness.  We are going to teach these students that when it comes to Christ, the best thing we can do is tap out and turn our life fully and wholly over to Him.  We are going to encourage these students to shake this earth at it’s core by giving themselves fully and wholly to the cause of Christ.

What would happen if 900 students totally surrendered their lives to Christ?  Please join me in praying that we find out this summer at NYC.

If you would like to bring a group of students to experience National Youth Conference 2014, visit www.generalbaptist.com for more information or to register.

3 Realities About Overcoming Depression

By Carl Nichols

A year ago it got very real for me as I shared my story with hundreds of people about a time in my life when I battled depression.

3 realities about overcoming depression

I am 100% sure that there are more depressed people in our community today than would actually admit, or even realize. In America, use of medication to treat depression has increased over 400% since 1988, making the people of the USA the wealthiest and most depressed people on the planet. Here are a few things that a friend and mentor helped me recognize in my own life:

4 Things that contributed to my depression

  1. An Unrealistic Pace – You can only run at full throttle for so long before you hit a wall
  2. An Unrealistic Expectation of Others – People will let you down so quit pretending that they won’t
  3. An Unrealistic View on Life – I was at one of the best places in my life financially as well as in my career, yet was growing unhappier and unhealthier by the day
  4. An Unrealistic Desire for Approval – Almost all of us struggle with this!

3 Realities about overcoming depression

  1. Denial doesn’t help, it only hurts – The first step in any recovery is to recognize the problem
  2. You cannot do life alone – God’s design for all of us is relational in nature so it is important to have others who share our faith walking with us in this journey called life.
  3. The solution begins by addressing the brokenness inside of you – Unless we realize our fallenness and brokenness, it is impossible for us to be authentic enough to recover and have faith in someone greater.

Remember…

Only God can use your pain for your progress!