Not Getting the Picture: 3 Ways Churches Confuse

By Franklin Dumond

William was confused by a new experienceAt 18 months old our grandson William recently spent one of his afternoons with us. We did all the usual stuff: playing outside chasing birds, playing inside with toys, and reading books. Then while I was preparing a healthy supper (Grandma had already baked cookies for him) William chose to color.

Grandma strapped him into his chair, pulled him up next to the kitchen table, and with crayons and markers in hand he began the creative process of coloring.

The vegetables were on and the meal was sizzling so I decided to listen to Garrison Keeler’s Prairie Home Companion. Often on Saturday evenings I listen to parts of this classic radio entertainment.

In our kitchen we have a replica radio that mimics those classic styles of cabinetry from the radio heyday of the 1930s and 40s. I switched it on just as a song concluded and one of the comedy routines began. William looked up from his coloring. He turned in the direction of the sound. He looked puzzled but turned back to his crayons. The sound changed again when the comedy routine concluded.William was confused by the radio He turned again toward the sound. He looked puzzled. Then Grandma figured it out. “There’s no picture!” she announced, “No wonder he is confused.” In our house, sound from a box had always been accompanied by a picture.

Because I spend a great deal of my time working with churches, William’s concern over a missing video component to the sound he was hearing causes me to wonder if a church ever puzzles first-time guests by what happens before, during or after worship services.

Here are three things I think become confusing:

1. While casual is the new norm for worship it is possible to become careless and even haphazard to the point of distraction. If casual becomes careless and haphazard it is likely that the newcomers and the old timers may conclude that the content is about as important as the level of attention it seems to be getting.

2. When technology is underused or misused it becomes confusing and puzzling to participants. I get especially concerned when spelling errors show up in song lyrics displayed on screen and when the technician uses a mirror image rather than a presenter’s view with the result that the audience sees every move of the mouse and every set up feature that is clicked.

3. Language that is dominated by code words or a religious vocabulary that goes unexplained is puzzling. E.S.A.T (enough said about that).

What do you think confuses newcomers and old timers in our worship?

How would you go about correcting these puzzles?  Click ‘Leave A Comment’ at the top of this article to join the conversation.

Be That Man

By Jeff Roth

I had the skills to pay the bills.  I was playing college baseball.  I was on my way to the big leagues.  That was my plan-but my coach had a different one.  I thought I should be starting at shortstop and batting clean up.  He thought I should be warming up our left fielder between innings.  We agreed to disagree, and I tried to become the best warmer-upper of a left fielder that they had ever seen.

Whenever you join a team you agree to come under the leadership of that team.  When I joined the baseball team, I understood that I was going to do whatever the coach thought would be best for the team.  It wasn’t always what I wanted.  Let’s be honest, it was hardly ever what I wanted, but I was following the leader.

In Mark chapter 8, Jesus calls not only His disciples, but also the crowd to Him.  He tells them all exactly what they must do if they want to be part of His team.

“If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” (Mark 8:34 ESV)

That’s what Jesus says.  When it comes to being a follower of Jesus it starts with a straight up denial of self.  Being a follower of Jesus I deny myself by saying that my life is no longer about me.  It’s surrendering everything to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my dreams to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my bank account to Jesus.  It’s surrendering my desire for applause, my talents, my time, my family, my heart.  It’s all surrendered to Jesus Christ to be used how He thinks will best help His cause.  It’s not always what I want, but it is what’s best.  That surrender and self denial is a daily battle for me.  It’s a daily battle for most of us, but it’s a battle we must fight.

Henry Varley once said to D.L. Moody, “It remains to be seen what God will do with a man who gives himself up wholly to Him.”  Moody became determined to be that man, and by God’s grace millions of lives were changed through his ministry.  I need to be determined to be that man.  You should be determined to be that person.  We should raise up our children and students to be determined to be that person.

NYC 2014 is all about surrenderingAt National Youth Conference this year we are going to war against this false truth that life is “all about me.”  We are going to raise up students who are willing to look to Jesus and raise their white flag of selfishness.  We are going to teach these students that when it comes to Christ, the best thing we can do is tap out and turn our life fully and wholly over to Him.  We are going to encourage these students to shake this earth at it’s core by giving themselves fully and wholly to the cause of Christ.

What would happen if 900 students totally surrendered their lives to Christ?  Please join me in praying that we find out this summer at NYC.

If you would like to bring a group of students to experience National Youth Conference 2014, visit www.generalbaptist.com for more information or to register.

My Secret for Successful Ministry

By Clint Cook

Looking back over my 29 years of pastoring at one church, I keep trying to evaluate how this feat has been possible.  Besides the obvious reasons of the call of God and working with a wonderful church, I believe another reason is what a pastoral mentor told me at the beginning of my pastoral journey: minister conferences and continuing education MUST be a priority.  Throughout my 29 years I have attended numerous conferences, denominational-sponsored events, and even some outside of my own denomination.  The first conference I ever attended was the General Baptist Minister’s Conference.  It is hard to quantify the knowledge, encouragement, and enrichment I have obtained through conferences since then.  In my next couple of posts, I want to discuss some reasons why I think attending a minister’s conference is invaluable.

We can not do effective ministry alone.

We can not do effective ministry alone.

The first reason for attending a minister’s conference is for the purpose of developing long-term friendships with other pastors.  Pastors are engaged in a unique occupation, and no one can truly understand the challenges better than a fellow pastor.  My pastor friends automatically understand the burden of ministry; the sacrifice, toll, and cost of ministry upon ourselves and our families; and the joy and the sadness of ministry.  I attend minister conferences because I want to do ministry not just with family and church members, but with life-long friends that can come along beside me because they “get” the ups and downs of pastoring.  I have found and developed many life-long friendships at the General Baptist Minister’s Conference.  You can too.

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